Friday, 6 June 2025

What I have loved this week! Week 23. #FridayFavourites

I have had a chaotic week, one of those where I don't know if I am coming or going but in a good way. There'll be more about that tomorrow but today I am here linking up with Erika and Andrea to share the things that I have loved over this past week.

What I have loved this week

Nonnas.
I have heard so many people mention this movie off Netflix so I had to give it a watch. After losing his beloved mother, a man risks everything to honour her by opening an Italian restaurant with actual grandmothers as the chefs. It was such a sweet story and even more so since it was based on a true story! It is one of those movies which make you feel happy even when things are a little bit sad.

Exams!
My youngest has had 2 more exams this week. The big one was the practical one for the electrical engineering course that she is doing and it makes up a big percentage of her end of year grade. She had a board and had to add all the wires, plugs, steel conduits and things like that to it and then of course make sure it was all working. It took two whole days at college to complete but she got there in the end. Then there was her English exam. I am hoping this time she passes so she doesn't have to resit it this time next year, we will find out in August.

A better bedroom!
We decided to make more space in my youngest girls room by shortening her bed. It was a metal frame so it was quite easy, well I am saying that, my dad and brother did the hard work. Anyway we got the bed back and it fitted perfectly, freeing up a ton of space in her tiny room.

A shortened bed

The pillows were moved the other end of her bed, shelves have been moved, her TV twisted around on the bracket holding it up and Ellie is so happy! Now we're trying to find a decent priced dressing table. I refuse to pay a silly amount of money when I know I can get a second hand one for a fraction of the price. My dressing table only cost £2 from the local auction, we jazzed it up a bit and it is fantastic so I'm hoping to find similar again for a similar price.

dressing table before and after

Lunch out!
My fella and I had a lovely lunch out on Monday. Our local pub launched their new menu and on a Monday there is 30% off so it would have been rude not to pay a visit. It is the first time we've eaten out in over a month so it felt like a real treat. I had the Sesame Chicken Bites for starters and a Full English Breakfast for my main! I was so happy when it arrived, it had fried bread on! Breakfasts never have fried bread on now, it was such a treat! The bill was too! It was just under £30 for two courses each and a soft drink for my fella and I.

Goats!
I don't know how or why but a few weeks ago TikTok showed me a woman, Katie Van Slyke from Tennessee who has a farm. She breeds horses and other animals but I am hooked on watching her goats who are pregnant. Each day she has been doing an update, looking at their udders seeing if they are close to giving birth. I feel so invested and probably by the time this goes live there will be baby goats as one goat is so close to giving birth!

Soreen Malt Loaf!

Soreen malt loaf

I had some of this as an afternoon snack during the week. It was something I bought and had forgotten about so it felt like a real treat when I saw it in the cupboard. Do you get it around the world or is it more of a UK thing? Malt loaf is a type of sweet, malt flavoured bread/cake. It has a chewy texture and often contains raisins. Eating it took me right back to my childhood, it was my grandad's favourite thing to have with a cup of tea.

What have you loved over the last week?

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Thursday, 5 June 2025

What to buy Dads for Father’s Day (Especially the ones who want nothing)

Father’s Day. That yearly occasion where we all panic about what to get the man who says he doesn’t want anything, already owns everything and insists he’s just happy with a nice cup of tea. It is classic Dad behaviour! My dad always says he doesn't want anything but I bet if I got him nothing the worst daughter award would go to me! 

While the shops are full of socks, beer mugs and “Best Dad Ever” keyrings it’s tricky trying to pick something that feels thoughtful, without spending a fortune especially if your dad is the kind of bloke who doesn’t want a fuss. Here are some ideas of what to avoid and what would make a great gift!

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Let’s get the least wanted gifts out of the way, you know those gifts that just scream "I just grabbed you at the supermarket as I couldn't think of anything else". Here are a few of the most common least wanted Father’s Day presents:

Another novelty mug - He already has 27 in the cupboard, including one from 1994 with a fading “World’s Best Dad” sticker.

Gimmicky gadgets - Like a self stirring cup or a golf ball shaped ice cube tray. Fun for five minutes, then they get put straight to the back of the drawer.

Socks with jokes on them - Unless your dad specifically asks for socks that say “Grill Master”.

Toiletry gift sets - Unless they are good one's. I am thinking the ones with a weird body spray scent that’s half Lynx, half petrol station air freshener.

Ties - Unless he still wears them regularly. In which case, fair play. But for most dads? Nope.

Now let’s move on to the good stuff! Here are some budget friendly but brilliant gift ideas for the Dad who wants nothing!

A Dad Voucher book - Homemade or bought!
Make your own mini book of “Dad Vouchers” with things like: One car wash (done properly!), a cooked breakfast, an afternoon of watching whatever he wants on TV with no moaning allowed or a trip to the chippy on you. These are fun, personal and cost very little, just your time. You can print them at home or find pre made versions online for just a few pounds.

A personalised keyring!
Not the cheesy kind! Look on places like Etsy for keyrings you can personalise with a little message or even a soundwave of your voice. Lots are under £10 and feel a bit more special than your standard “Best Dad” fare.

A box of his favourite snacks!
Not just a multipack of crisps, I'm talking a mini hamper of his favourite bits. Think of his favourite snacks: those posh peanuts that he only gets at Christmas, pickled onion Space Raiders which are a blast from the past, fancy beer (or alcohol free if that’s his thing), chocolate covered raisins or even a few retro sweets from his youth. Wrap it up nicely and it’s a winner.

Something for his hobby!
Even if he says he doesn’t want anything, if he’s got a hobby, there’s usually something he’ll appreciate. Into gardening? A new plant label set or a decent pair of gloves? Loves football? A pint glass with his team’s badge or a funny football themed book could do the trick. A music lover? A set of guitar picks, vinyl record coasters or a print of his favourite band. These don’t have to break the bank and even £5 to £15 can get you something thoughtful.

A DIY night in kit!
Put together a mini Father’s Day movie box. Include: A film or series suggestion (maybe even write it out like a cinema ticket!), his favourite snacks, a pair of comfy socks (plain, not punny) and a little note saying you’ll watch it with him, no phones allowed! Sometimes the best gift is just making time together feel a bit special.

A memory jar!
This is a really heartfelt one. Get a jar or tin and fill it with notes, funny memories, things you love about him, jokes you share, quotes from your childhood or even old photos folded up small. It’s thoughtful, it costs next to nothing and it’s guaranteed to bring a tear to his eye (even if he pretends he’s “just got something in his eye”).

A cheap & cheerful DIY project!
If you're a bit crafty, make something. Paint a rock with a message, make a framed photo collage or turn an empty jam jar into a “Dad’s Treat Fund” with a label and a few coins to get him started. It doesn’t have to be perfect it just has to come from you.

Not everything has to be a physical gift. Sometimes experiences are better, especially if your dad truly doesn’t want stuff. Think things like breakfast in bed, a walk and a pub lunch or an afternoon with a no to-do list.

You don’t have to spend loads to make Father’s Day meaningful especially for the dad who says he doesn’t want anything. Skip the generic tat, focus on things that show you know him and remember that time, effort and love are worth more than any shop bought gift!

What are you getting your dad or father figure for Father's Day?

Wednesday, 4 June 2025

The Wednesday Hodgepodge! #17

I hope you are all having a good week? It's Wednesday which means it's time to join in with the Wednesday Hodgepodge with Joyce over at From This Side of the Pond! Each week there are 6 questions, we answer and then link up. Simple!

Question marks on paper crafts

1. What do birthdays look like in your house? How are they celebrated? Any special traditions? What about birthdays growing up?

I love celebrating my families birthdays and they of course do too. During the summer my fella, eldest and youngest daughter all have their birthdays in the space of 25 days. Last year for their birthdays we didn't do much as we had a lot going on in our real lives. There was still the usual meals out and too many presents (I do go overboard). Most years we have a special day out. In 2023 we went to an arcade place for Ellie's birthday and had a night in a hotel for Becky's. When the girls were younger we didn't really bother with big birthday parties for them, it was more of a family celebration. Ellie's birthday is right at the end of the summer and Becky's usually fell around the first day of school when us and everyone else had lots going on! 

When I was growing up birthdays were not a big thing, I think my parents thought it was just another year. I think that's why I go over the top now with birthday banners, too many presents, days out and making the birthday boy or girl feel extra special. Giving my family the birthdays that I never had growing up. 

2. Someone is sending you a dozen roses...what color are you hoping for? Are you someone who gets accused of seeing the world through rose colored glasses? Is your accuser correct? Elaborate.

I'd be hoping for Rainbow roses, I want all of the colours. They look so pretty. A few years ago Stu bought me a bunch for Valentine's Day and I did love them!

Rainbow roses

I’m more the type to be accused of seeing the world through foggy, slightly cracked glasses I found in the bargain bin at the back of a charity shop. If someone did accuse me of looking at the world too positively, I’d probably look behind me to see who they were actually talking to. I’m a realist, I expect things to go wrong not because I want them to but because I like to be mentally prepared for when the proverbial hits the fan!

3. June 4th is National Cheese Day...will you celebrate? What's something (besides a burger) you make in the summer months that calls for cheese?

I am not a big lover of cheese. From the age of about 9 until about 25 I didn't eat it as it caused me to have the worst migraines. It was only when I was a lot older I realised it was cheddar or darker coloured cheese which caused my migraines, I am fine with Mozzarella, Feta, Brie and Mascarpone. The only time I really eat cheese is on pizza. My family on the other hand are cheese lovers and will have it on everything given the chance! 

4. 'tis the season...any weddings on your June calendar? What's the first word that comes to mind when I say marriage?

Nope, there is no one we know tying the knot this year. The last wedding we went to was a couple of years ago when my fellas niece got married. Everyone we know is either married or just not bothering with marriage.

When I think of marriage, the first word that pops into my head isn’t romance or forever it’s teamwork! That’s what real, day to day marriage is built on. It’s not just candlelit dinners and anniversaries, it’s helping each other find missing socks and tackling life together whether it be good or bad. 

5. What are you most looking forward to this June?

The start of summer, my youngest finishing college until September, Glastonbury Festival (watching on the TV, not going) and having a quiet month because after June things get busy for myself and my family! We have plans for July, August, September and October! 

6. Insert your own random thought here.

I am writing this on Sunday afternoon. Usually on a Sunday everyone is home but it's just me and Stu. The girls are out doing their own thing. We had planned to go for a pub lunch, making the most of it just being the two of us but that would mean having to make an effort and get ready to leave the house so we're having crisp sandwiches and a cup of tea in our pj's. Sundays are meant to be a day of rest and that is just what we're doing. 

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Tuesday, 3 June 2025

365 Days Of Gratitude. In May I was grateful for...

Where did May go? It felt like we were just starting the month last week and here we are at the end of it. At the start of May I felt like I didn't have much planned but it ended up being quite a busy month with a bout of tonsillitis in the middle of it and lots of real life things going on which caused me a bit of stress but I'm so over it now.

I have seen many people on social media list something every day that they are grateful for and thought I would join in. I did this for the whole of the last couple of years and it has really made me realise that even on the bad day's I have something to be grateful for.

Grateful

Day 121 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that I was able to go and vote in the local elections.

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Today I am grateful for Netflix and that I have finally got around to watching the last series of YOU!

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Today I am grateful for a peaceful afternoon in the garden. Repotting some plants and planting the last of my seeds.

Planted seeds

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Today I am grateful for a lovely evening out with family and friends.

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Today I am grateful that the girls had their people over today. It felt like a real houseful.

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Today I am grateful for a new favourite meal from Gousto! Creamy pork, apple & mustard casserole! It was amazing!

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Today I am grateful that Ellie's meeting at college went well.

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Today I am grateful for jacket potatoes and baked beans for tea! Such a simple meal but so good!

Evening outside

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Today I am grateful for some help with the housework from Becky.

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Today I am grateful that I've finally been refunded for something I bought a couple of months ago that was never delivered despite The Range saying it was on it's way about 15 times!

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Today I am grateful that the sore throat I woke up with has gone! I am blaming hay fever!

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Today I am grateful for ChatGPT which helped me write some very strongly worded emails today!

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Today I am grateful that Becky ordered a delivery from Costa Coffee for lunch. It was such a lovely treat!

Costa drink

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Today I am grateful that I feel a bit better today after having tonsillitis. My throat is still sore and my tonsils are still swollen but at least the high temperature has gone and I don't feel as tired.

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Today I am grateful for a day at home with Ellie. It's been ages since it was just me and her!

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Today I was grateful to get mountains of washing all washed and dried.

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Today I am grateful for a walk around town. We didn't buy much, it was just nice to get out after being poorly for most of the week.

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Today I was grateful for a day in front of the TV watching the football.

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Today I am grateful for an unexpected lunch out with my brother.

ice cream in front of the TV

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Today I am grateful that Ellie passed her latest exam at college. This one was all about the science and maths of electrical engineering!

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Today I am grateful that Ellie has found a part time job to apply for and she now has a CV ready to drop off tomorrow.

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Today I am grateful that my knee has stopped hurting. It started bothering me last night and it was no better this morning. Thankfully the pain seems to have gone now. So strange!

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Today I am grateful that Ellie said she did OK in her English exam. OK is good, the last couple of times she did it she has said she did rubbish so this is an improvement.

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Today I am grateful for rain! My garden needed it!

rainy day

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Today I am grateful we got to watch the last match of the season!! Shame Newcastle lost but they still get to play in Europe thanks to Man United winning their match!

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Today I am grateful for a day in my pj's. I do love a lazy Bank Holiday!

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Today I was grateful for a nice day out with the girls. Even the rain didn't spoil our fun!

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Today I am grateful that Ellie's bed was taken to be shortened. The frame is almost a foot longer than the mattresses so in theory chopping some off will mean it will fit under her window and free up space in her tiny room!

bed being shortened

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Today I am grateful for a day of just pottering around the house.

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Today I am grateful for my brother and his power tools! He makes any DIY job so much easier!

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Today I am grateful that Ellie has everything back in her bedroom and the new bed fits!

What were you grateful for in May?