Friday, 8 May 2026

What I have loved this week! Week 19. #FridayFavourites

Happy Friday! I hope you’ve had a good week. Last week seemed to be all about enjoying the spring weather and this past week has felt more like Autumn. A few bright and warm spells with more chilly time in between. Hmmf. I am not happy about it, I was getting used to the warm weather. As always, I’m linking up with Erika and Andrea to share the things that I have loved over the past week.

What I have loved this week

Cancelled plans!
On Sunday we had plans to go to a charity event but because of the bad weather it was rained off. We still decided to venture out and went to a pub for Sunday Lunch that we had heard good things about. They fitted us in even though they were busy and the food was amazing! We will be going back. If I had my way, it would be this coming Sunday but Stu has said no, we're not getting into a habit of going out every Sunday for lunch, which I suppose is a good thing but I could happily become one of those people who has a regular table somewhere. hehehe

A cosy day at home!
This sounds strange saying it, to have a cosy day at home but mid-week it was chilly so I got my blanket out, drank probably too many mugs of tea, wore comfy clothes and enjoyed being home. I caught up on writing some blog posts, did a bit of admin that I had been putting off and didn't really move much. It was nice to have a day like that.

This photo of my youngest!

My youngest daughter

It did make me laugh. I said to Ellie to give me a nice photo when we were waiting for lunch and I got this face. She was in a funny mood and there was no way I was getting a nice, smiley shot. I love photos like that though. They feel more real than the posed ones and it sums her up perfectly in that moment. You never quite know what you’re going to get with her.

I remember watching this on TV a good few years ago. The Hughes, like any other family, is a happy and close-knit one. However, everything changes when their youngest son Joe is diagnosed with autism. It came up on Netflix and thought I would rewatch. It's such a heart-warming show which portrays Autism really well and the challenges parents and the community face. Maurice, the grandfather played by Christopher Eccleston is priceless. He reminds me of my dad a lot, not always being politically correct, saying things he shouldn't and being a bit clumsy about how he handles some situations.

A Bank Holiday!
Bank Holidays don't usually mean much in my house as it's Stu's usual day off work anyway and they are usually during school holidays, so Ellie doesn't feel the benefit but this past one on Monday felt like a real Bank Holiday! After being out on Sunday it felt like we needed another day for us all to be home and we got it with Ellie having a bonus day off from college too. We have another at the end of the month but that is one which doesn't count as it's at the beginning of the half-term break from college.

Eating together!
We don't eat together as a family as much as we did. With a 23 and 18 year old who have their own lives, the meals where we are all together are few and far between, so when we get the chance I cherish it. We had a home cooked meal during the week, all sat together and ate! I always enjoy cooking more when I know everyone is going to be there, it feels worth the effort. I am dreading it when my girls leave home and it's just Stu and me! Eek!

What have you loved over the past week?

Friday favorites

Thursday, 7 May 2026

My 10 most controversial food opinions!

Food is one of those things everyone has very strong opinions about and people are not shy about sharing them. I have seen myself having full-on debates about what is right and wrong when it comes to food with my family. I can be sat there minding my own business, happily eating your tea and suddenly a whole drama is caused just by me saying I like pineapple on pizza. I thought I’d share some of my most controversial food opinions, the ones that tend to get a reaction and raise a few eyebrows. I stand by every single one and I’m not sorry.

Controversial food opinions

1. Pineapple belongs on pizza!
Let’s just get this one out of the way because it always causes the biggest reaction. You’d think I’d confessed to dipping chips in custard with the way some folks react but the thing is pineapple on pizza just works. It goes so well with ham and mushrooms, obviously I wouldn't put it on all pizzas. I am not a savage. lol

2. Crisps belong in sandwiches.
If you’ve never put crisps in a sandwich, I don’t know what to tell you because you are missing out on a very simple joy in life. The crunch against the soft bread is something special and turns a basic sandwich into something exciting. It’s an experience we should all enjoy. Any flavour works too. My favourite is mixing prawn cocktail and roast chicken flavours.

3. Tinned fruit is underrated!
Tinned fruit does not get the appreciation it deserves. People act like it’s some kind of last resort but it's brilliant and requires no effort with peeling and chopping. Simply open a tin! Tinned peaches are my favourite. That syrup, if I could bottle it and drink it I would.

4. Ketchup belongs on more things than people admit!
People love to act like ketchup should only go on certain foods but I think it’s way more versatile than it gets credit for. Chips, obviously but also sandwiches, bits of a fry-up, random picky tea items, it just works.

5. Cold pizza is the best!
Fresh, hot pizza is great but cold pizza the next day is better. It's not just takeaway pizza either, the same goes for home-made. It’s like all the flavours somehow become even better overnight. There’s also something quite nice about standing in your pyjamas, fridge door open, just grabbing a slice and getting on with your day.

6. Jam first on scones is the right method!
This one is risky but jam should always go first on scones, before the cream. It just makes sense to spread the jam, then the cream sits on top like a little cloud. It looks better, tastes better and feels right.

7. Cereal tastes better late at night!
Breakfast cereal at breakfast time is OK. I am not a big breakfast eater, so I would never choose cereal but cereal at 10pm is different. There is no explanation for this, none at all. It’s like cereal becomes a whole different food after dark and I can enjoy it.

8. Salted caramel is overrated!
Salted caramel has been treated like something special for years now and I am so over it. It’s everywhere and yes, it tastes nice but people treat it like it’s the best thing ever invented and I just don’t get the hype. It’s too sweet and a bit much.

9. Pasta shapes taste different and fusilli is the best one!
Food scientists can argue with me all they like but pasta shapes do taste different. Fusilli is the champion because it holds onto sauce like its life depends on it. Every little spiral grabs flavour and refuses to let go.

10. Orange juice with pulp should be illegal!
I know some people love pulp and feel all fresh and natural drinking it but for me, no! I do not want to chew my drink. If I wanted bits, I’d eat an actual orange. Drinks should not have texture, it’s unsettling!

Do you agree or disagree with any of my opinions?

Wednesday, 6 May 2026

The Wednesday Hodgepodge #54

I hope you are all having a good week. It's Wednesday, which means it's time to join in with the Wednesday Hodgepodge with Joyce who blogs at From This Side of the Pond! Each week there are 6 questions, we answer and then link up. Simple!

the Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. What's something you may do this month?

I’ve already written my list of goals and plans for the month and I hope to get all of those things done but to add to that list, I may keep on top of the weeding in the garden. It sounds easy, just go outside and pull them up but when I do 5 more appear, it is a never-ending job. At the moment it is hard to know what are weeds or what are flowers as they are just starting to grow. My plant identifier app is getting a lot of use. hehehe

2. Hola! Hodgepodge Day lands just after Cinco de Mayo... how do you feel about Mexican food? What's your favorite dish? Do you make it at home or is it a strictly dine out option?

I’m not a big fan of Mexican food. It’s never really been a big part of my life and it’s not something I grew up eating so I rarely choose to eat it now. I do make fajitas at home now and again and they’re always a hit. Everyone can build their own, choose what they want, pile on the toppings and there’s very little complaining. It has been ages since we last had them. I think I need to add them to our meal plan soon. We don’t really go to Mexican restaurants. There aren’t many local to me and it’s just not something we think to do.

3. When the children of today grow up what do you think they'll say about this time period? What do you most hope they remember?

I think they’ll say that everything was online. Their lives are so documented compared to what mine was when I was a teenager. I think I have about 10 photos of myself between the ages of 14 and 20 years old. Now there are photos, videos, messages and posts all online. Kids today have grown up with group chats constantly pinging, TikTok trends and being able to track friends and family online. I imagine they’ll look back and laugh at some of the trends, cringe at some of the things they posted and wonder how they kept up with it all. I do hope they remember the normal days, the ones that didn’t get photographed or shared. Those normal moments: eating as a family, sitting in the kitchen chatting about nothing, laughing over something daft and those random moments where everyone’s in a good mood.

4. What advice would you give a new mother?

Try not to compare. It is easier said than done, especially when it feels like everyone else has got it all sorted with perfect routines, calm babies, tidy homes and matching outfits but that’s not real life. What works for one baby won’t work for another. What works for one mum won’t work for you and that is fine! Some days will feel like you are winning at life other days will feel like chaos. You don’t need to do things the same way as anyone else. Trust yourself and go with your gut feeling. You know more than you think you do!

5. What's a phrase your mother often said to you? If you're a mom do you say it to your own children?

"Because I said so" I used to roll my eyes every single time I heard it from my mum. It felt like the most unfair, lazy, annoying answer in the world but as a mother now I get it! I always said I’d never say it when I had kids of my own but I say it at least a few times a week. It usually happens when I've explained something in three different ways, answered all the questions and the girls are still pushing back, asking and asking!

6. Insert your own random thought here.

On Sunday we went out for lunch! It has been ages since we had a Sunday dinner out. We used to go eat out most Sundays as it worked out cheaper and easier than cooking but then our local pub closed down and we didn't bother travelling further afield until this past weekend. We hadn't booked, it was quite busy but they fitted us in and it was one of the best roast dinners that I have had in such a long time! I cleared my plate and I am still thinking about the meal now.

Sunday dinner out

I had roast ham, Becky had roast chicken, Stu had beef stew and dumplings and Ellie had mushroom stroganoff. There were plates of veggies to share and the Yorkshire Puddings were perfect! For dessert, I had sticky toffee pudding, Becky and Stu had rhubarb crumble and custard and Ellie had chocolate fudge cake and cream! We will make sure to book next time. I've already said we will be going back!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

Tuesday, 5 May 2026

365 Days Of Gratitude. In April I was grateful for...

I have seen many people on social media list something every day that they are grateful for and thought I would join in. I have done this for the whole of the last few of years and it has really made me realise that even on bad days I have something to be grateful for.

April flew over, it was another blink and you miss it months. I think it was because things were so higgledy piggledy with Ellie having two weeks off college for her Easter break, Stu taking some time of work and Becky being all over the place with concerts, theatre shows and city breaks. It was been a fun month for us all. We've had nights out, lots of family time and lots of laughs.

Today I am grateful for

Day 91 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Stu's holidays for the year have been accepted at work! Well, for now they have. They have been known to backtrack on days off when things are busy!

Day 92 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for the moments in life that help me slow down and appreciate the people and time I have right now.

Day 93 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for fish & chips from the chippy for tea! I'd like to say it was because it was Good Friday but we get chippy tea most Friday's.

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Today I am grateful for a quiet night in front of the TV with my family!

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Today I am grateful for Easter eggs!

Lambs in the field

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Today I am grateful that I had time this afternoon to catch up with Grey's Anatomy!

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Today I am grateful that an appointment I had today went well. I have stressed about it for days but the man I spoke with was lovely and made the whole ordeal almost fun!

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Today I am grateful for tea out at the all you can eat place in Hull!

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Today I am grateful Stu didn't ask me to help him out while he was tidying the garage. Ellie made the mistake of going out there and got roped into helping. I hate the garage, it's full of spiders!

Day 100 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a full day! Went to my dad's, ran some errands and had a meal out with Stu.

Sunset

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Today I am grateful that Stu did the cooking tonight! Food always tastes better when someone else makes it!

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Today I am grateful for a day in front of the TV watching movies!

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Today I am grateful that Ellie and Stu had a nice day out. I stayed home and caught up on some things here.

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Today I am grateful for a Chocolate Fudge Frappe from Costa! Yum!

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Today I am grateful for a good catch up and chat with a friend.

Just me

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Today I am grateful for a fab delivery driver from Morrisons. He was very helpful and chatty.

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Today I am grateful McDonalds for tea! I wasn't even that bothered about the food, all I wanted was a milkshake!

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Today I am grateful I was dosed up on cold and flu tablets so I could stay up and watch night one of Wrestlemania!

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Today I am grateful a little lie in this morning after going to bed at 3am after the wrestling. I'm doing it again tonight. Eek!

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Today I am grateful that the water company finally figured out what keeps blocking our drains! Limescale! There's a build up in the pipes and drains! 

Blossom

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Today I am grateful for an extra mouth to feed tonight. Of course I made too much sausage casserole.

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Today I am grateful she said yes! Becky got engaged to her girlfriend earlier tonight.

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Today I am grateful for a bowl full of strawberries and cream after tea!

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Today I am grateful that Becky got back from her travels and brought me 2 tubs of Pease Pudding.

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Today I am grateful that I am the cold I had has gone!

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Today I am grateful that Stu cut the grass.

Planting seeds

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Today I am grateful to get loads done in the garden. My back is aching now though.

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Today I am grateful to spend the day with Becky. We have had some giggles.

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Today I am grateful that my plants seem to be doing well after I moved them into bigger pots. Phew!

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Today I am grateful that everything was delivered with the food shop! That rarely happens!

What were you grateful for in April?