Saturday, 6 June 2026

This week my Word of the Week is: Changes #WotW

This week my Word of the Week is:

Changes

It feels like last week’s Word of the Week post was ages ago. This week has felt completely different in every way. It’s like everything is shifting at once, even though nothing massive has actually happened. It’s lots of little changes stacking up. Weather, routines, people, plans, everything feels like it’s moving in slightly different directions.

The biggest change this week has been the weather. Last week was around 30C. This week has been hanging around 18/20C. It's not been freezing or anything but definitely not the hot weather we had. It’s gone into that in-between stage where you’re not sure if you need a hoodie, a blanket or both. I think it has rained every day this week too but I don’t mind it at the moment. The garden definitely needed it, everything was starting to look a bit dry after the heat. It has also meant I’ve slowed down a bit without feeling guilty about it. When it’s sunny I feel like I should be outside doing something all the time but with this weather, I’ve been indoors more, just pottering and it’s felt quite nice.

On Saturday, I felt so lucky that I could have a little lie in while Stu went to work after our night out. We didn't get home that late but it was still a few hours after Stu would normally go to bed on a work night. The tiredness didn't bother him at all while he was at work. In fact he had a brilliant day, smashing all of his targets, then some. It was only when he ate his tea and sat down in front of the TV that the tiredness hit him.

We were all at home on Sunday and it seems like a long time since that happened. We didn't do anything special but it was lovely. I made sure I made the most of it and got everyone to help out with the housework. lol I am sure the girls would deny it but we all had fun and they finally got all their clutter from around the house put away properly.

Ellie went back to college this week for her last term there and she is so close to the end of her education. Yesterday I wrote about how Ellie has fewer lessons with the college year wrapping up and it is such a big change for her to have all the free time. She has been using that time wisely and has been busying herself applying for jobs, tweaking her CV, speaking to the careers people at college and going on a couple of shopping trips. To be honest, I thought I would have to do more to help her find a full-time job but at the moment she is doing all that she can without me having to step in and nag. It's exciting, scary and very emotional that my baby is growing up!

My main excitement came on Tuesday when I went to view a house with Becky and her partner. It was all very exciting for them. I was trying not to put them off but to tell them about the realities of having their own place! Light grey and almost white carpets look great but I would worry about staining them in a rented property. Lots of grass in the garden is great but that means buying a lawnmower and if the cooker breaks there is no just going out and buying a new one as it was built in. At the moment, they are still in the applying and viewing places stage, so it might not be anytime soon but now I have got my head around my girl moving out I am quite excited for it and she is too.

Yesterday it was just me and Becky going to my dad's as Ellie had her 2nd English GCSE exam to do. It was a real treat for Becky and my dad, as usually Ellie is there, so they got some quality time together. It was a nice change for us all. My dad had a bit of Grandad guilt as he always gives us lunch and it always seems to be the weeks that Becky isn't there he gives us something good and sometimes dessert too. Yesterday it was bacon and black pudding sandwiches with an ice cream to follow. 

How has your week been? I hope you have had a good one! I am of course linking up with Anne who blogs at Raisie Bay to join in with her Word of the Week linky!

Word of the Week

Friday, 5 June 2026

What I have loved this week! Week 23. #FridayFavourites

Happy Friday! I hope you’ve had a good week. I have had a really quiet one, compared to last week. Last week seemed to be full of things going on and this week has felt much calmer. I don't mind, I quite like having a mix of busy weeks and quieter ones. I am of course linking up with Erika and Andrea to share the things that I have loved over the last week.

What I have loved this week

A house viewing!
Not for me and my fella but for my eldest. I can't quite believe we've reached the stage where she is viewing houses. She had her first ever house viewing and I went along with her and her partner to keep them on track and level headed. They got carried away looking at all the fancy things, where I was more interested in the practical things, like where the boiler and fuse box were. They were obsessed with how pretty the lights were and I was pointing out that fancy bulbs usually cost a lot more than the standard ones. They were amazed by how lovely the light grey carpet was and I was thinking about muddy shoes, spillages and how difficult it would be to keep looking nice. I suppose that's the difference between people viewing their first home and someone who has spent years cleaning carpets and replacing light bulbs. lol They are planning on renting and have put in the application to go ahead. The house was nice but half an hour after viewing it another came up on a property website that was cheaper per month, bigger and in a better location. They have asked for a viewing for that one too. I told them to keep their options open and not to just go for the first one they have viewed. Eek! This is a huge step for them and I am proud of them for getting to this stage.

A night out!
Stu and I had a night out last Friday and it was just what we needed. First, I fixed the dress, which wasn't really a dress. I think I mentioned it in another post. I bought what I thought was a dress and then discovered it actually had shorts built into it. It sounds great but I planned on wearing leggings underneath and realised that every trip to the toilet was going to involve the sort of gymnastics, so I did the only sensible thing, got the scissors out and cut the section that went between my legs and it became more practical. I love it now!

Dressed for a night out

We went into town, had a lovely meal and visited a couple of bars. We had a few drinks, chatted, people watched and even danced a little. We were home just after 1am which is late enough for me these days and Stu had work the next day. Thankfully, he didn't feel tired until later on Saturday evening.

Fewer lessons!
The end of the college year is almost here. My youngest only has a few weeks left and her timetable is starting to look very different because some of her classes are finishing up. She doesn't have to attend English lessons any more because she has her final exam for that today and now it's about finishing coursework and parts of her engineering course. The annoying thing is that the lessons which have ended aren't at the end of the day. If they had been, she would have enjoyed some earlier finishes. Instead, she has awkward gaps in the day but she doesn't seem bothered. On Wednesday her and her friend forgot they didn't have English any more. They arrived at college at 9am ready for lessons and then realised there was nothing for them to do, so they went into town, did a bit of shopping and picked up some Father's Day gifts.

Clarkson's Farm!

Clarkson's Farm

New episodes of Clarkson's Farm were released yesterday and I am very excited about them. I'm planning on sitting down and watching them today. I know Jeremy Clarkson isn't everyone's cup of tea but I absolutely love him and this show. If you don't know who Jeremy Clarkson is, he became famous through the car show Top Gear and is a bit sarcastic, outspoken and sometimes causes a bit of controversy. He reminds me a lot of my dad. Eek! A few years ago, he bought a farm, decided he wanted to run it himself but he didn't know much about farming and that is what makes the show so entertaining. We're onto season 5 now!

Rain!
As much as I loved the hot weather last week, it has been nice that it has cooled down and to get some rain this week. I don't think I'd ever survive in a country where it's hot all the time. The rain arrived at the right time, just after I had put some plants into the ground. The rain has really helped and everything looks greener already but the weeds have also taken this as a sign to grow at record speed. Ugh! The worst thing is that most of the weeds have appeared in my flowerbed where I planted flower seeds. Now I can tell what are weeds and what are flowers.

What have you loved over the past week?

Friday Favorites

Thursday, 4 June 2026

365 Days Of Gratitude. In May I was grateful for...

I have seen many people on social media list something every day that they are grateful for and thought I would join in. I have done this for the whole of the last few of years and it has really made me realise that even on bad days I have something to be grateful for.

Another month has flown over! May started off wet and chilly and ended with some ridiculously hot weather which I really enjoyed despite complaining that it was too hot at any given chance. Ellie had her last school holidays. She leaves education at the end of this month! Eek!

Today I was grateful for

Day 121 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a nice time with my dad today. He made me lunch and spent a few hours chatting.

Day 122 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a night with my family! Watched a bit of F1, Britain's Got Talent and of course the wrestling!

Day 123 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a roast dinner out! It was so nice not have to cook!!

Day 124 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a lazy Bank Holiday! I've done nothing productive and enjoyed every moment!

Day 125 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Ellie is working hard at college. She stayed back today and did extra work.

Day 126 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful it didn't rain! Just after I put the washing out it looked like it might.

Flowers

Day 127 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful my flowers were substituted with my food shop. Sainsbury's sent better than I ordered!

Day 128 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a Chinese takeaway for tea.

Day 129 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful the wrestling starts at 11pm so I can stay up and watch at least some of it.

Day 130 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a day watching movies. Remarkably Bright Creatures, Care and Send Help! They were all brilliant in different ways!

Day 131 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a day out with Stu. We just had a mooch around the retail park.

Day 132 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful Becky made a good start on decluttering her bedroom!

Me

Day 133 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a jumper and fluffy socks! It was chilly today! Mother Nature needs to get the memo that it's May and start acting like it.

Day 134 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for fresh flowers! Well not that fresh they're a week old but they're still doing well!

Day 135 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for lunch at my dad's, we even got dessert! Rhubarb crumble and custard!

Day 136 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for fun tonight, watching Eurovision!

Day 137 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a lovely lunch out with Stu.

Day 138 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful we managed to get some gardening done before the rain came!

Birdhouse

Day 139 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Ellie picked up a few things we needed while she was in town.

Day 140 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that I could watch the 007 episode of Grey's Anatomy while I was by myself so I could have a good cry.

Day 141 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Ellie feels like she did well in her English GCSE. She said she wrote more in this exam than she did in the previous two years.

Day 142 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful I could spend some time sitting outside in the sunshine! What a lovely day it has been!

Day 143 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that I could watch the football this afternoon and see Hull move up to the Premier League!

Day 144 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for my fan! I am quite tempted to take it to bed with me as it's still so warm.

Sheep

Day 145 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful we got a lot of work done in the garden. The cold shower I had after was the best one ever!

Day 146 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a lovely day with my girls. Lunch out, a bit of shopping, a visit to an art gallery and finally tea out! What a treat!

Day 147 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a day home alone!

Day 148 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Stu cooked our tea. He almost followed the Gousto recipe. lol

Day 149 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a fun night out!

Me and my girls

Day 150 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a little lie in this morning. I needed it.

Day 151 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for help with the housework, for once the whole family helped!

What were you grateful for in May?

Wednesday, 3 June 2026

The Wednesday Hodgepodge #58

I hope you are all having a good week. It's Wednesday, which means it's time to join in with the Wednesday Hodgepodge with Joyce who blogs at From This Side of the Pond! Each week there are 6 questions, we answer and then link up. Simple!

The Wednesday Hodgepodge

1.What's something you find extremely difficult that most people would say is simple?

Ohh! I have a list. Folding fitted sheets, mine just get rolled into a ball and put in the cupboard. Getting out of bed as soon as the alarm goes off, I need at least 3 snoozes. Opening packaging that is supposedly easy to open, like the bit on bacon or ham which says peel here, it never peels or those childproof bottles, I always need help! Cooking the right amount of pasta or rice, I always cook far too much. Finishing a cup of tea while it's still hot, it never happens and understanding the instructions for flat-pack furniture, I am sure that it is made for geniuses!

2. "And so with the sunshine and the great bursts of leaves growing on the trees, just as things grow fast in movies I had that familiar conviction that life was beginning over again with the summer." ~ F. Scott Fitzgerald. Does the season of summer make you feel this way? Elaborate.

I like that Fitzgerald quote, summer is a great reminder that the seasons and routines change and there are always new experiences ahead! This year feels like a fresh start for my family. There are some big changes coming over the next few months. My youngest finishes education at the end of this month, will leave college and at the moment is trying to find a full-time job, which feels strange after so many years of school runs, term dates and exam stress. My eldest is also getting ready to spread her wings. Nothing is happening yet but she has a viewing for her own place this week and could be moving out. The longer days, warmer weather and brighter skies in summer make everything feel a little easier. I think if all the changes in my family were happening in the winter it would be harder for me to deal with. When the sun is shining my mood is always lifted and I feel like I can take on the world.

3. Pickles. Love 'em or no thank you? What's your favorite type of pickle? What's something you eat that definitely needs a pickle added?

No, thank you! I don’t think I’ve ever actually liked pickles. My family love them though! Last week at McDonald’s, I removed the pickle from my burger and I passed it over to my eldest, who was very happy about it. The only reason my youngest didn't grab it first was because she hit the pickle jackpot with three on her burger. lol

Pickle kit

I remember a few years ago the kids bought a pickle kit from the TikTok shop when it was a big thing. You wrapped the giant pickle in the sweet fruit roll-ups, stick Taki crisps in the pickle and cover it all in the spicy candy sauce. To me it was disgusting but they loved it and thought it was the best thing ever!

4. Tis the season...do you know any June brides? Are there any weddings on your summer calendar? What's your favorite movie wedding?

Nope, there are no weddings happening here. The last time we went to a wedding was for Stu's niece and we had a little breakaway to go to the wedding. It was a fantastic few days and brilliant to get all dressed up.

Dressed up for a wedding

As for favourite movie wedding my first thought was Four Weddings and a Funeral. It’s such a classic but I thought about it properly and came up with Father of the Bride. It just feels the most real. It’s not only about the bride and groom, it’s about the dad realising his little girl is growing up and there’s nothing he can do to stop it. I can 100% picture Stu being that dad with our girls. Then there’s the comedy side of it too because I can just see my own dad being exactly like George Banks, stressing over every penny, the house in total chaos, trying to keep control while everything around him goes crazy. Side note, I asked my fella his favourite movie wedding and instead of something romantic, he went straight for Game of Thrones and said The Red Wedding. That is such a man's answer. lol

5. June 1st is/was National Say Something Nice Day...say something nice here.

I don't think I have ever said this but thank you Joyce for coming up with the questions every week. It really is one of the highlights of my week. First thing I do every Sunday morning is look at the questions as I am so excited to see what they are about. Also, thank you to everyone who reads and comments on my Hodgepodge post. I do love a Wednesday reading all of your answers.

6. Insert your own random thought here.

I went out on Friday night and while I was getting ready I thought my legs were looking a little pale, so I put some fake tan on. I thought it was an instant tan and with it being a couple of years old I just assumed it hadn't worked. Later that night, I noticed the tan had worked and my legs looked amazing, it must have been a gradual tan. Then I slept in it and the next morning I didn't look so great, it all went patchy! I've had 2 showers as of writing this on Sunday afternoon and it still hasn't all gone. It's a good job it has cooled down here and I won't be showing my legs off anytime soon. lol

Wednesday Hodgepodge