Sunday, 15 November 2026

A photo every day for a year! 8th - 14th November Week 46 of #Project365

Happy Sunday!! I hope you are having a great weekend! We've had a fairly quiet one here so far, which is just what I needed because next week is shaping up to be a very busy one. I have something planned for every single day which I'm really looking forward to but I also know that once it gets going I probably won't have much time to sit down. I'm making the most of a quiet weekend while I can.

Did we all survive the Microsoft outage? Stu had a very quiet day at work on Friday because of it and a very busy one yesterday catching up. Everyone had their lunch break cut to half an hour and had to work half an hour's overtime too. Eesh! We really do rely on computers for everything these days, don't we? You don't realise just how much until something stops working.

I am feeling in a very Christmassy mood, so today I will be watching Christmas movies. I am planning on watching all the Nativity ones. Mr Poppy is still the best character and I will never get tired of watching those films. I've been very tempted to get the Christmas decorations out and put them up but I am waiting until next weekend, after my birthday!

As you can probably tell from this week's photos, there hasn't been a great deal going on. There are quite a few food photos, which is usually a sign that I've not been up to much. I've been pottering around the house, trying to keep warm and enjoying a few treats.

Now for a photo every day!

Grand Prix and Shortbread
Hot chocolate and Fried eggs
Christmas wrapping paper
Red leaves and make up brush

312/365 8th November
Of course, my photo is one of the F1 Grand Prix. It was a good race too. Max Verstappen came from 21st place to come 2nd. There was all the drama of picking the right tyres for the weather and when to change them and Lando Norris had an accident with his champagne bottle. Instead of spraying everyone, he ended up smashing it. Oops.

313/365 9th November
It's officially shortbread season in my house. I suppose you can eat shortbread all year round but there is something about this time of year that makes me want it even more. It is more a Christmas thing for me. I have been enjoying a couple of pieces with my afternoon cup of tea.

314/365 10th November
Our plans changed so we consoled ourselves with a Costa Coffee delivery. There wasn't any coffee ordered though, we went for hot chocolates and I had the Terry's Chocolate Orange one. It was so good!

315/365 11th November
I had fried egg sandwiches for lunch! I don't have fried egg sandwiches very often, which is probably why I enjoy them so much when I do.

316/365 12th November
I have veered away from the traditional Christmas wrapping paper for the girls and went with something a little different. Cats for Ellie and the ducks for Becky. I do like choosing wrapping paper that suits the person I'm buying for. I also like having different paper for different people because it makes it easier to tell whose presents are whose when they are all underneath the tree.

317/365 13th November
I was walking to my dad's and happened to be passing underneath some trees that had the most gorgeous red leaves. I couldn't walk past without taking a photo! I think the red leaves are my favourite.

318/365 14th November
I was today years old when I realised there was a little brush on the end of the colour changing foundation stick. I only discovered this because I saw a woman using it on TikTok. lol I've been using it for months and never noticed that there was an extra little brush attached to it. I do love TikTok for things like this.

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Saturday, 14 November 2026

This week my Word of the Week is: Frustration!! #WotW

This week my Word of the Week is:

Frustration

I am going to try really hard not to rant throughout this blog post but we've had a week of it. There have been little irritations, great big ones and plenty of frustration thrown in for good measure! It turns out it's a thing for this time of year, as last year I used frustration on the 8th of November for my Word of the Week but for different reasons.

I mentioned on Sunday how a company cancelled a job interview at short notice on Friday for Ellie. Well, on Monday she had another interview with a different company and it was booked in to be a telephone interview. She waited and waited for the call but there was nothing. Later that day she got a snotty email basically saying thanks for not turning up to your interview and wasting our time. We double checked the emails and they were supposed to call her. It was a telephone interview, not a mysterious meeting where she was expected to magically know where to go! So Ellie emailed the company, forwarding the original email from them and politely told them of their mistake and they have ghosted her. She even contacted them through their social media and someone replied saying they would pass it over to the recruitment department. We are still waiting for a response. I know mistakes happen but blaming a young person for not turning up when the company was supposed to make the call is a bit much. Ellie is trying her best to find work, applying for jobs, going to interviews and keeping positive when things don't go her way. It's hard enough for young people to get a job without companies making it even harder by not doing their own bit properly. It's also not a great first impression of a company. Imagine getting a job there and having to deal with situations like that every day. Maybe it's a lucky escape but it is still frustrating.

On Tuesday we were booked into a pub nearby to have an Autumn Afternoon Tea but we got a message at about 10am saying they had to cancel as they had a water leak. I do feel bad for them because they couldn't open until the next day. These things happen and there's not much anyone can do about a burst pipe but I'm not going to lie, I was gutted. We had already had to cancel a fortnight ago because Becky had training at work, so this was our second attempt at getting there. I was looking forward to it. Hopefully it will be third time lucky. We're booked in to have it next week and the bonus is that it's my birthday week, so it will be extra special.

Becky and her partner had a house viewing earlier in the week and they were feeling hopeful. The estate agent was there showing them around and the landlord was there doing repairs. As Becky and her partner got there early, they were chatting to the landlord. He seemed like a nice guy and the house was nice too. The Estate Agent said she would be in touch the next day. She was true to her word and dropped an email saying the landlord had gone with another applicant. House hunting can be such a pain. Becky and her partner were of course gutted but at the same time, I don't think they really wanted to be moving house this side of Christmas anyway. Hopefully the right house will come along at the right time.

I was waiting for parcels most of last weekend and it carried on to this week. I didn't mind, my usual delivery people know where to leave them if I am not in but there was issues with one parcel. For 3 days running, I kept getting a notification saying it was out for delivery and then sorry we can't deliver! I don't even think they tried to deliver but it was starting to stress me out. I couldn't do much as it was coming through Evri and their customer support is non-existent! Anyway, on Thursday it arrived! Phew!

How has your week been? I hope you have had a good one! I am of course linking up with Anne who blogs at Raisie Bay to join in with her Word of the Week linky!

Word of the Week

Friday, 13 November 2026

What I have loved this week! Week 46. #FridayFavourites

Happy Friday! I hope you've all had a good week. We've had a week of it here with lots of things going on which I am going to write about in my Word of the Week post tomorrow but today I am linking up with Erika and Andrea to share what I have loved this week!

What I have loved this week!

Usually in my Friday Favourites post I list about 5 or 6 things that I have loved this week and write about those things but there hasn't been anything big over this past week. It's been lots of little things so I am going to list them.

My fleecy Pjs - It's their time to shine! I have been wearing them for bed and feel so cosy!

Lots of Wrestling on the TV over the weekend - There was the Friday night show to catch up on before a live event from Riyadh. They always go all out when they are in Saudi Arabia.

Booking a night away for Stu and I - We will be visiting a Christmas market and having a nice meal out on the evening.

Having a day with no plans - Our afternoon tea was cancelled so I had most of the day with no plans. It was nice to spend it on my laptop and catch up with some blogging stuff.

Getting Costa Coffee delivered - Plans changed and we stayed home so we needed something to cheer us up. I had the Terry's Chocolate Orange hot chocolate and muffin! They were so good!

Getting into a freshly made bed - Stu changed the bedding on Monday and it was such a treat! I hate changing the bedding.

All the parcels I was waiting on have been delivered - All my Christmas shopping is just about done!

My youngest standing up for herself - People were messing her about and she wasn't going to stand for it.

We used a lot out of the freezer this week - We needed to so I can get it defrosted.

I am on my 48th book of the year - On Good Reads I set myself a challenge of listening to 35 and I've smashed that.

I ordered a card & gift for a friend - Their birthday is coming up soon and deserve to be spoilt.

The heating being on when it's really chilly out - It's a little thing I really appreciate. I turn into such a grump when I am cold.

Stu doing all the cooking on Sunday - What a star. Sandwiches for lunch and a little roast dinner at tea time.

Takeaway for tea tonight - I love our tradition of a takeaway on a Friday.

All the Christmas adverts on TV - I really like the Morrisons, Marks and Spencer and Waitrose ones this year.

My eldest and her partner going to a house viewing - They didn't get the house but it was a bit more life experience for them!

A hot shower after being out in the cold - There is nothing better especially when I can get straight into my fleecy Pjs.

What have you loved this week?

Friday Favorites

Thursday, 12 November 2026

What I listened to in October!

At the start of the year, I started listening to audiobooks. I always wanted to be a reader but couldn't/wouldn't make the time, so audiobooks were a way around it. I could be busy doing something while still listening to a book. Anyway, I thought I would share what I have been listening to. All of my audiobooks come from my local library through the app BorrowBox. I know lots of what I listen to might be considered old but they are all new to me!

What I have been listening to lately

This is what I listened to in October:

An Unlikely Visitor by Joanna Cannon!

Margaret thinks her time is up. Things have been hard since her husband Derek died, and they never got over the disappearance of their daughter, Jeanie, all those years ago. With his support, it seemed like everything would be okay okay enough, that is. But now Derek’s gone. Margaret moves through the days slowly, quietly, alone. Then one day, Margaret returns home to an unlikely visi­tor, and together they set out to discover what really happened to Jeanie. Perhaps if she knocks on enough doors, she might find another end to the story. Part mystery, part ghost story, part meditation on grief, An Unlikely Visitor is a warm hearted and hopeful reminder that the people we love are always with us.

When I started this book I had no idea the unlikely visitor would turn out being who it was. No spoilers but what a twist! Margaret tugged on each and every one of my heartstrings and I just loved following along as she pushed herself out of her comfort zone. This book is sad and I had a tear in my eye at times but it is beautifully written and packed full of emotion! I loved it!

Blacklands by Belinda Bauer!

Twelve-year-old Steven Lamb digs holes on Exmoor, hoping to find a body. Every day after school, while his classmates swap football stickers, Steven goes digging to lay to rest the ghost of the uncle he never knew, who disappeared aged eleven and is assumed to have fallen victim to the notorious serial killer Arnold Avery. Only Steven's Nan is not convinced her son is dead. She still waits for him to come home, standing bitter guard at the front window while her family fragments around her. Steven is determined to heal the widening cracks between them before it's too late. And if that means presenting his grandmother with the bones of her murdered son, he'll do it. So the boy takes the next logical step, carefully crafting a letter to Arnold Avery in prison. And there begins a dangerous cat-and-mouse game between a desperate child and a bored serial killer.

I really liked this book. It's heart breaking to realise that Steven was just trying to find the body of his murdered uncle to fix his little broken family. All he wants is to be normal and happy. Even though the story is told from the perspective of a 12 year old boy it is not for children because of the serial killer who was a truly evil and sick man! The ending felt a bit rushed but on the whole it was fantastic to listen to and I didn't want to stop listening. It did make me think of the Ian Brady/Myra Hindley case which made it feel so, so real!

Over Sharing by Jane Fallon!

Can you live a lie without spilling the truth? Once, Iris was happy. She had the home, the husband, the promise of a family. Now she's divorced and renting out her spare room to make ends meet. Life could be worse. But could have been better - if it hadn't been for Maddy: the woman who ruined her life. Social influencer Maddy's brand is happy families. She preaches about loyalty and the sanctity of marriage, and is quickly becoming famous for her wholesome videos of life with her husband and adorable twin girls. Iris doesn't believe a word of it. And she's going to prove it's all false. Because if there's one thing that will bring back Iris's happiness, it's taking away Maddy's.

I wanted to like this book but couldn't get past or relate to the main character. Iris isn’t a very nice person at all! Her behaviour is ridiculous and she really annoyed me because of the way she treat people. She was a car crash waiting to happen but I couldn’t look away. There were some funny moments but overall I found the story a little boring. I did finish listening to it just to see how it ended.

Eyes on You by Adele Parks!

At 15, Amy witnessed her father brutally murder his secret lover. Her testimony sealed her father’s fate. With him in prison, Amy and her mother must rebuild their lives in the shadow of a notorious crime. Years later, Oliver Harrington walks into the restaurant where Amy works. Just like Amy, Oliver has a past he’d rather forget. Amy is drawn to him at a profound level; they feel a connection, an understanding. This seems a lot like love, but does it hide something darker – an obsession that could lead Amy into a web of deception and violence she thought she’d escaped? As the truth looms ever closer, Amy must confront a harsh where there is love, there is often betrayal.

I struggled with the beginning of this one. At first it felt as though the story wasn’t really going anywhere and there were moments when I was very close to giving up. It just wasn’t grabbing me in the way I had hoped it would. I am very glad I carried on because once everything started to come together, the story took a completely different direction. Once the story got going I was completely invested and eager to see how everything would turn out. It is a good reminder that sometimes a little patience really does pay off. I nearly gave up on this one but I am so glad I stuck with it!

Cassandra in Reverse by Holly Smale!

If you had the power to change the past…where would you start? Cassandra Penelope Dankworth is a creature of habit. She likes what she likes (museums, jumpsuits, her boyfriend, Will) and strongly dislikes what she doesn't (mess, change, her boss drinking out of her mug). Her life runs in a pleasing, predictable order…until now. She's just been dumped. She's just been fired. Her local café has run out of banana muffins. Then something truly unexpected happens: Cassie discovers she can go back and change the past. One small rewind at a time, Cassie attempts to fix the life she accidentally obliterated but soon she'll discover she's trying to fix all the wrong things.

I think if I was reading this book I would have got bored with it but hearing it on Audiobook made it fun! I love that it didn't have the typical then and now point of view even though it had wiggly time stuff in the plot. Being autistic Cassandra is not a character that everyone can relate to but I found her well intentioned, loving and loveable. Her effort to deal with the world were at times laugh out loud funny and gave valuable insight into an autistic perspective. The story did leave me with some unanswered like where did the sudden ability to time travel come from? I wasn't too keen on the ending and that is all I will say so I don't spoil it for anyone else. I feel like I need a second book after the ending.

What have you been reading or listening to lately?