Sunday, 31 August 2025

A photo every day for a year! 24th - 30th August! Week 35 of #Project365

What a week! I feel like I need a nap that lasts about three business days to recover from Ellie's 18th birthday. I don’t think I’ve sat down properly since last weekend and even when I have my brain has still been whizzing about all the things I needed to do. It’s been all go preparing for her birthday and then celebrating. I think she’s officially been spoiled! She got everything she wanted and then some! She had so many lovely messages from family and friends and it really felt like one of those milestone birthdays that she'll remember forever. We had a lovely family meal out Friday night which was really nice and spent the evening at the pubs karaoke and then Saturday she was off into town with her friends. I gave her a long list of rules to stay safe and I am sure she stuck to them.

It was so strange last night, it just being Becky, Stu and I at home when Ellie was out with friends and then sleeping out. The house felt so different, almost too quiet! We made the most of it though treating ourselves to an Indian takeaway.

Now for a photo every day!

Pink flower and my eldest and fella
Presents wrapped and false nails
Birthday sign
My youngest and dressing table seat

236/365 - 24th August
These pretty pink flowers appear in my garden around the same time every year which is surprising as they seem to come from nowhere. My plant Identifier says they are Grape Leaf Anemone.

237/365 - 25th August
Bank holiday and we were all at home which doesn’t happen too often these days so we decided to go out for lunch. It turned into such a lovely afternoon with good food, plenty of laughs and even some sunshine which seems rare considering it was a Bank Holiday!

238/365 - 26th August
Present wrapping day! Becky helped me get Ellie’s gifts all sorted. She had more presents than I realised, but she’s worth it. You only turn 18 once!

239/365 - 27th August
False nails! A little peek at Ellie’s style. If it’s black it’s usually hers! These are definitely very Ellie.

240/365 - 28th August
Stu and I spent 2 hours putting up birthday decorations. This one was my favourite. Awesome Since 2007!

241/365 - 29th August
Just an 18 year old loving her balloons and loving life!

242/365 - 30th August
Ellie was very surprised with her dressing table and Stu put the seat together last night, so far so good and is putting the dressing table together today.

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Saturday, 30 August 2025

This week my Word of the Week is: Eighteen! #WotW

This week my Word of the Week is:

Eighteen

It has to be Eighteen! I was originally going to go with preparations because that’s exactly what most of the week has been filled with, getting ready for Ellie's birthday today but when will I ever get to use Eighteen again? The next chance will probably be when I’ve been blogging for eighteen years and that’s still a good six years away so I thought I’d better grab this chance while I can!

I’m writing this on Thursday because I knew yesterday and today would be chaos, the good kind of chaos but chaos all the same. We’ve had a busy week! Deep cleaning the house because we have had guests staying. There’s nothing like having people round to make you notice every speck of dust. Presents have been wrapped, bags hidden away and we’ve all gone into full birthday prep mode that even included haircuts and a little beautifying with nails done and the works! The cake was delivered which is always a big moment. There’s something about seeing the cake that makes a birthday feel very real!

By now Ellie will have opened her presents and hopefully loved them all. One of the big surprises was a dressing table that we got for her. I did that sneaky parent thing where I printed out a photo of it and popped it in one of her cards so she knew what was coming even though the actual boxes have been sitting in the dining room for weeks hidden under a towel and she never even noticed! Hopefully it is getting put together today.

Now that Ellie’s officially 18 it’s like a whole new world has opened up for her. She’s already realised that she doesn’t need me to sign permission slips for college anymore. She can buy paracetamol from the shop, she can order her own drink at the pub, which makes me feel old and the biggest one of all she can go on a proper night out with her sister. Becky has been planning something really special for her. Along with a few bits for her dressing table she also bought tickets to an event and sorted a hotel for a night away.

The hotel and event were booked a bit last minute as Ellie had to wait for her new college timetable to be confirmed. She popped into college earlier this week to sort out her course details, fill in paperwork and finally got given her new timetable. She came home so happy with it. She’s got two half days and one full day with all her lessons nicely bunched together instead of those long gaps in between classes where she just had to hang around for hours. She said it’s the best timetable she’s ever had!

Ellie wasn't just having a birthday yesterday she is having a whole birthday weekend! She has plans today, tonight and tomorrow. I don’t think she’s going to know whether she’s coming or going but I am betting by Monday she’ll probably collapse in bed and spend most of the day recovering.

This week has been all about Ellie turning 18, the planning, the cleaning, the wrapping, the surprising and finally the celebrating. Eighteen feels like such a milestone, and I couldn’t let this week’s Word of the Week be anything else!

How has your week been? I hope you have had a good one! I am of course linking up with Anne who blogs at Raisie Bay for her Word of the Week linky!

Word of the Week

Friday, 29 August 2025

My 18 favourite things about my daughter as she turns 18!

How is it even possible that my youngest daughter is 18 today? Eighteen! It feels like just yesterday I was holding her just as she had been born, feeding her solid food for the first time, holding her hand as she learned to walk, getting her dressed for her first day of school, watching her perform in school plays, sending her off by herself (walking with friends) to secondary school, applying for college and most recently accepting that she has a boyfriend. Somehow, those baby years feel like both a lifetime ago and just yesterday. She’s officially an adult now although she’ll always be my baby girl!!

My youngest as a newborn

Over the years, she’s made me laugh, cry and burst with pride more times than I can count. She’s got a fierce spirit, a kind heart and a wicked sense of humour that keeps us all on our toes. As she celebrates this big milestone, I wanted to take a moment to reflect. Not just on how far she’s come but on all the things I love most about who she is right now.

My youngest at 17 years old

This is a bit of a different Friday Favourite post but I am still linking up with Erika and Andrea to share my 18 favourite things about my daughter Ellie as she turns 18!

1. Her strength!
She’s been through more than people realise and has handled it with courage and quiet resilience. Her heart surgery, problems with her eyes and feet, starting nursery school a week after her 3rd birthday and being the youngest in her year all the way through school and college, being deaf in one ear, other health problems, being bullied all through primary school, the Covid years which took over most of her time at secondary school, entering into a male dominated career (engingeering), struggles with friendships and so much more. She might not always feel strong but I see it in her every single day. She is a lot stronger than she gives herself credit for.

2. Her eye rolls
She’s got a signature eye roll full of sass, perfectly timed and sometimes hilarious. It drives me mad and makes me laugh at the same time. A true talent.

3. Her style!
She knows what she likes and wears it with confidence. Whether it’s a hoodie and tracksuit bottoms or something bold and unexpected, like a dress with questionable tights. She owns it and always looks effortlessly cool doing it. She loves chunky, goth looking boots and she has got the red and black one's for her birthday! They're surprisingly comfortable.


4. Her independence!
She’s not afraid to do things her way even if it’s not the expected way. All through her life we have joked and have said she's hit all her milestones in "Ellie time". She’s brave enough to make her own path and determined enough to stick to it. She has been determined about her engineering career even though it is make dominated. Last year there was a class of about 25 with only 3 girls.

5. Her sense of humour!
Dry, quick, sometimes sarcastic and sometimes daft. She makes me laugh constantly. Our shared in jokes are priceless and I’ll never get tired of her funny takes on life.

6. Her music taste!
Whether it’s something we both love or a band I’ve never heard of, I admire how she connects to music. She has multiple playlists on Spotify with all genres and music for all moods. She has always loved singing, she doesn't sing out loud as much as she used to but some times I will walk in a room when she is in full voice and I love it!

7. Her stubbornness!
Yes, it’s highly frustrating sometimes but it’s also a sign of her determination. She stands her ground, speaks her mind and doesn’t let people walk over her and I wouldn't want it any other way.

8. Her bond with her sister!
They wind each other up constantly but there’s a deep love and loyalty there that’s unshakeable. The in jokes, the teasing, the protectiveness is something special.

Ellie and her sister

9. Her makeup skills!
Whether she’s glammed up for a night out or playing with bold colours just because, she’s got such talent. Half the time I ask her how she did her eyeliner so perfectly and her collection of make up is impressive, I am always borrowing it but don't tell her. hehehe

10. Her courage to speak up!
She isn't the most confident speaker until she needs to and doesn’t stay quiet, especially when something feels wrong. She’s not afraid to speak her mind even when it’s awkward or uncomfortable.

11. Her love of Sushi!
She has loved it since she knew what it was and I thought it would be something she would have grown out of but no, she is still obsessed and still stinks the house out when she is eating it!

12. Her dreams!
She’s got hopes and plans bubbling away even if she’s still figuring everything. I love hearing her talk about her future and knowing that whatever she chooses she’ll make it her own.

13. Her clumsiness!
She trips over flat surfaces, walks into doors and spills things constantly and we both laugh every time.

10. Her heart!
She cares deeply even if she doesn’t always show it with words. It’s in the small things she does for people in the way she listens, notices and just gives.

My youngest and I

14. Her honesty
She doesn’t sugar coat things and I respect that. She’ll tell you if you’ve got something in your teeth, if you are wearing something that doesn't look right and if she thinks you’re being a bit over dramatic.

15. Her grumpy morning face!
She’s not a morning person and her "do not talk to me until I’ve eaten" energy is a whole personality trait. It never fails to amuse me.

16. Her way of making boring things fun!
A trip to the supermarket becomes a comedy show and folding laundry is somehow full of laughs. She’s got a way of turning mundane moments into special memorable moments.

17. The way she holds on to memories!
She remembers moments that I’ve forgotten things I said, trips we took, random little rituals from when she was small. Her sentimentality makes me so happy.

18. Her growing confidence!
Watching her step into herself slowly but surely has been beautiful. Each year she’s become more certain of who she is and what she wants and it’s been a joy to watch!

I could write far more than eighteen things I love about Ellie but I had to stop somewhere or we’d be here all day and I’d end up crying on my keyboard. For today, on this milestone birthday these are the ones that stood out!

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Thursday, 28 August 2025

The A to Z of Summer joys!

Ah! Summer, it feels like it's almost over with Ellie going back to college next week. We have had a good summer, plenty of sunshine and hot days even though I have complained a lot about the heat. As much as I have complained I will be sad to see the end of the season. 

Summer joys

Everything feels brighter, lighter and just a little bit more joyful in the summer so I have put together my personal A to Z list of summer joys!

A is for Alfresco dining!
Summer is made for eating outside. Eating outside. A BBQ, a picnic in the park or lunch at a cafe or dinner in the pub's beer garden. Food somehow tastes better when sat outside in the sunshine!

B is for Beach!
I love a trip to the beach especially in the summer as long as I don't have to go onto the sand, it gets everywhere. Hearing the sound of waves crashing and feeling the salty breeze on my face is just heaven! The kids used to love a trip to the beach when they were younger. Building sandcastles, paddling in the sea, exploring the rockpools, fish and chips wrapped in paper and playing in the arcades!

My girls playing on the beach

C is for Cold showers!
There’s nothing quite like the refreshing jolt of a cold shower on a hot summers day. We lived here for a few years without one and I don't know how we managed in the warmer months without it! I have loved having a cold shower after spending time in the garden.

D is for Day trips
Summer is perfect for adventures and day trips are a fantastic way to explore without too much planning. I actually prefer a day trip to a proper holiday. 

E is for Evening light!
I love those summer evenings, they seem to last forever. When the light softens and everything glows just before the sun starts setting. The world feels peaceful.

the sun setting

F is for Fresh fruit!
Summer is the season of juicy, ripe fruit. Strawberries, watermelon, raspberries and cherries are out favourites. Fresh fruit feels like a treat that’s good for you too!

G is for Gardening!
Summer is the time when everything seems to come to life and all the effort in the spring planting seems worthwhile. I love my garden. Watching seedlings grow into vibrant flowers or tasty vegetables is so rewarding!

H is for Holidays!
Holidays are a huge part of summer. There is of course the break from school and college, the chance to break free from routines, sleep in, eat ice cream for breakfast and fill your days with what you love. A bonus is of course a proper holiday even if it is only a few days. 

I is for Ice Cream!
Summer and ice cream go together like sun and sea. The classic vanilla, fruity sorbets or indulgent chocolate fudge. A real treat is one from the ice cream man but during the summer months I always have some in the freezer.

Ice cream

J is for Juice boxes!
These are a nostalgic thing for me. I always remember my mam getting them to take on day trips in the summer and I do the same now. They are so handy, just enough to quench your thirst, not too much to waste and light enough to carry around.

K is for Kids playing!
Barefoot in the grass, chalk drawings on the pavement, water balloons flying through the air. The sound of kids laughing and playing outside is one of the loveliest sounds of the of summer. I miss my girls being little.

L is for Lazy mornings!
Summer gives us the chance to slow down. No early starts or frosty mornings. We can wake up when our body is ready, sip a cuppa in your dressing gown and there is just a slower pace.

M is for Melon!
Nothing says summer quite like juicy, sweet melon slices. Watermelon, cantaloupe, or honeydew I am not fussy, I like them all! It is such a refreshing snack for hot days!

N is for Nectar from flowers!
The bees and butterflies have loved my garden over the summer months. All gathering nectar. Watching these tiny visitors flit from flower to flower is calming and so amazing to watch. 

Bee in my garden

O is for Outdoor games!
From classic croquet and frisbee to giant Jenga and Swingball outdoor games bring laughter and plenty of fun. We have had them all over the years and Swingball will always be our favourite.

P is for Picnics!
Packing a basket with sandwiches, snacks and treats then spreading out a blanket on the grass feels like the perfect summer day. Even just grabbing a meal deal from the supermarket and sitting outside feels like something special.

Q is for Quiet moments!
Summer is busy so it is nice to have those quiet moments. Early mornings with a cup of tea, sitting under a shady tree people watching or just looking at the clouds drift by.

R is for Road trips!
Packing up the car and hitting the road with no fixed plan is a true summer adventure. I especially like going off with my dad when he goes on an adventure, I never know where we'll end up.

S is for Stargazing!
Summer nights offer clear skies and warm air perfect conditions for lying back and watching the stars twinkle overhead.

T is for Thunderstorms!
I know, I know thunderstorms aren’t everyone’s idea of a summer joy, personally I can't stand them. I always get a headache and the thunder scares me but it does often mean that the air will be less heavy and it will feel less sticky and hot afterwards.

U is for Unplugging from screens!
I have definitely spent less time in front of a screen over the summer with the warmer weather and being able to get outside more. I have all winter to sit in front of a screen!

V is for Vino!
Summer and a chilled glass of vino and there's nothing better than sitting drinking it in the pubs beer garden. I love a fruity rose. 

W is for Water fights!
Nothing beats the sheer, silly fun of a spontaneous water fight on a hot summer day. Whether with water balloons, squirt guns or garden hoses. I still have some water balloons in the cupboard that the girls keep forgetting about.

water fight

X is for eXtra time outdoors!
I had to stretch a bit for X! Longer daylight hours in summer mean more time to get outside. Evening walks, sitting in the garden and just staying out longer.

Y is for Yellow!
Yellow is the colour of summer! Sunshine, happiness and energy! Bright sunflowers, lemonade sun dresses, butterflies and of course the sun's glow!

Z is for Zzzs in the Sun!
The ultimate summer joy: a lazy, dreamy nap in the sunshine.

What are your favourite joys of the summer?