Wednesday, 7 October 2026

The Wednesday Hodgepodge #76

I hope you are all having a good week. It's Wednesday, which means it's time to join in with the Wednesday Hodgepodge with Joyce who blogs at From This Side of the Pond! Each week there are 6 questions, we answer and then link up. Simple!

The Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. Let's embrace it shall we? What's something you recently forgot to do? Is your memory these days more like a sieve or an elephant?

I forgot I was supposed to be at my dad's on Monday. We had talked about it on Friday and I said I would pop over to help with some of the admin for his business. He rang me at lunchtime wondering where I was. Oops! I got my shoes on and rushed over. There was no actual rush but I felt bad for forgetting!

I have a memory like a sieve these days. Things can go into my head and then disappear five minutes later. I can remember random things from years ago that I probably don't need to remember at all but if you asked me on Monday morning what I was doing that day, my memory had given up. lol. I think part of the problem is that there is always so much going on. Even when I'm not really busy, there's always things to remember. Appointments, things that need buying, jobs that need doing, people I need to get back to, things I need to take somewhere and those little everyday things don't seem important until I forget them.

2. Share a trick/strategy you have to help you remember things you need to remember.

I write everything down! If it's really important, I write it on the whiteboard in the kitchen. That way I can't miss it because I walk past it all the time. I also leave notes for myself and I put things in the calendar on my phone and I always get a notification the day before to remind me. If I need to take something with me when I go out, I'll put it by the front door or somewhere that I know I'll see it. I think I've accepted now that I shouldn't rely on my memory for anything important. I could tell myself I'll remember that and there's a very good chance that I won't. Writing it down saves a lot of hassle!

3. What's your favorite fall vegetable to cook with? Do you prefer your fall veggies roasted, blended into a warm soup, or fresh in a crisp autumn salad?

My first thought was parsnips! I had to Google if they were an Autumn vegetable and they are. The peak harvest time is between October and February here. I love them roasted with a bit of honey on. I could easily eat a full plate and when I am making them for say a roast dinner, I always make extra so I can snack on them. I also love Brussels sprouts on a roast dinner at this time of year. They were something I hated as a child but I love them now but only ever eat them between now and Christmas!

Roast parsnips

I'm more of a roasted vegetable person and I do like soup, especially when it's cold outside but if I had to choose between a bowl of soup and a plate of roasted vegetables, the roasted vegetables will always win. The poor crisp Autumn salad doesn't even get a look in!

4. October 5th is/was National Do Something Nice Day. Did you? If so tell us about it. Or maybe someone did something nice for you, and if that's the case please share.

I went to my dad's and helped him with a few things on the computer. He used to be great at getting these things done when they could be done over the phone or in person but now everything is online and he is not great with technology. Everything seems so complicated needing to use an email address, remember passwords and the dreaded verification codes sent to your phone! He doesn't do text messages. lol It didn't take too long to get the admin done and it was nice to be able to help my dad and save him the frustration of trying to work it all out for himself.

5. Nathaniel Hawthorne is credited with the quote "I cannot endure to waste anything so precious as autumnal sunshine by staying in the house."

Do you tend to spend more time outside this time of year?
Do you actively pause to soak in fleeting moments of beauty in your daily routine? Elaborate.

I don't spend more time outside in autumn but I do try to make the most of those days when the sun is shining. I like to potter about in the garden and of course make the most of drying the clothes on the washing line. There's something satisfying about getting a load of washing on the line instead of putting it in the tumble dryer. I know that's not exactly what Hawthorne had in mind when he wrote his quote but we all appreciate autumn sunshine in our own ways!

I do try to pause and notice the little things too. There's always something to do so it's good to stop for a minute and look around. At this time of year, I'm noticing the changing leaves, the pretty sunsets and how nice it feels to be outside when the weather is behaving itself. It won't be long until the colder weather comes and I am not a fan of that.

6. Insert your own random thought here.

Before I saw the questions for today, I already had in mind what my random thought was going to be. It was going to be about me forgetting to go to my dad's on Monday so now I have to think of something else. lol I had a funny moment last week when I was in town which shows I have a really bad memory for faces. I was walking around a shop and a woman said, "Ohh, hello there. I've not seen you in ages". I had no idea who she was, she knew me though. She asked how my dad and brother were doing, so I narrowed it down a little and then had a little chat about them, the weather and it was only when she was walking away that I realised who she was. I must have come across as so stand-offish. Oops! In my defence, I hadn't seen the woman in about a year and she looked so different from when I used to see her in the place she was working. Oops!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

Tuesday, 6 October 2026

The problem with getting dressed in October!

I have a problem with getting dressed in October. Actually, I have several problems with getting dressed in October because this is the month when I never seem to know what I am supposed to wear. I can look out of the window in the morning, check the weather, have a good think about it and still get it totally wrong. It might look freezing but can be quite warm or it might look lovely and sunny but then the wind will be horrible and cold wind that makes me wish I'd put a proper coat on. October really does make getting dressed much harder than it needs to be!

Getting dressed in October

In the morning I wake up and it is cold. Not freezing where I am thinking of putting the heating on but definitely cold enough that I don't want to get out of bed. The duvet becomes my best friend and getting dressed feels like a chore. If I had my way, I would change into my fleecy PJs and stay in them all day. Over the last year or so, I have realised I can't sleep in them any more as I wake up in a hot sweat, thanks to peri-menopause. I will get myself dressed and usually put a jumper on as it's cold when I am out of bed but half an hour later I wonder why I bothered as I am far too warm.

You need to dress for the temperature at 8am but you also need to think about what it is going to be like at 1pm. Then you need to remember that by 6pm it could be cold again. So really, you are trying to dress for three different days while only actually getting dressed once. October is the month when I rely on a T-shirt underneath a jumper so at least I can take a layer off.

The coat is another problem. I have the same argument with myself at this time of year about whether it is finally time to get the big coat out. I will look at it hanging there and think it's not time for that yet and then I will go outside and realise it is actually quite cold and wish I had brought it. So I go back inside, put it on and feel pleased that I have finally accepted that autumn has arrived. Five minutes later, I regret it.

That is the annoying thing. You can leave the house in a coat because it looks cold and then suddenly the sun comes out. Now you are walking around carrying your coat over your arm for the rest of the day. You are trying to hold your handbag, your phone, whatever shopping you have bought and your coat and you are thinking why did I need to bring it? Then the next day you decide you don't need it and that's the day you freeze!

I also don't know when we are supposed to officially stop wearing summer clothes. Is there a date? If it is a mild October day, I am quite happy to wear a T-shirt or a summer dress. I am not ready to suddenly start dressing like it is December just because the calendar has changed. There are still days when the sun is shining and I look outside and think it's not too bad, so I put on a lighter top and head out. Then see somebody wearing a big coat and I start wondering whether I've made the wrong choice but then I see somebody else in a T-shirt and realise that maybe nobody actually knows what they are doing. We are all just guessing.

October has this strange middle stage where my summer wardrobe is still there but I don't really want to wear most of it and my winter clothes are sitting there waiting for me to admit defeat. I don't want to get all the big winter jumpers out too early because once they are out, I feel like summer is properly over. I like autumn but I am not ready for winter quite yet!

I have a wardrobe full of clothes and nothing to wear! None of it is right. A T-shirt? Too cold. A jumper? Probably too warm later. A cardigan? Maybe. A thicker jumper? Too much. A dress? No idea and after trying to work it out for far too long, I will usually end up putting on the same jeans and jumper I wore a few days ago because at least I know where I am with that outfit.

In winter, you know it is cold. You get your coat, your warm clothes and your boots and you get on with it. In summer, you know it is warm and you can put on something light without having to think about it too much. October is somewhere in between. You don't know what you are going to get. Getting dressed should not involve this much decision making!

I think I am just going to accept that I will probably get it wrong quite a lot this month. I will keep my summer dresses out because there will still be mild days. I will keep the jumpers close by because the mornings are definitely getting colder. I will probably continue to argue with myself about the big coat for at least another couple of weeks and I will keep looking at my wardrobe every morning as though the answer is going to suddenly appear. It won't and I will still have no idea what to wear.

Do you struggle to get dressed at this time of year?

Monday, 5 October 2026

Our weekly meal plan! 5th - 11th Oct! #MealPlanningMonday

Our weekly meal plan

Happy Monday! I hope you all had a lovely weekend! We had a great one. There was a night on the town, housework done yesterday and lots of catching up on TV shows. We had a bit of family time, which was nice too. There's good about going into a new week with all the jobs done around the house, it doesn't happen often so when it does I feel very pleased with myself.

Last week's meal plan went well. We ate everything and mostly on the day I had planned it too. We ended up not getting a takeaway on Friday night and just helped ourselves out of the fridge and cupboards. We ate out on Saturday evening, just at the local Wetherspoons (a cheap and cheerful pub chain). I had a Tennessee burger. I had to Google why it was called that. It's because of the Jack Daniel's Tennessee Honey sauce that comes with it. You learn something new every day! We ended up having the peanut satay chicken burger on Sunday! I think that's enough burgers for me for a while.

We have another Gousto box this week which I am looking forward to. I do love having Gousto boxes because it takes some of the thinking out of meal planning and I get all the ingredients for the meals sent too. We have a new meal to try and two of our favourites.

I don't have any plans for this week, nothing at all and I am looking forward to it. I have some craft things that I can be getting on with and I want to do a bit of baking too. My family are all at work, so I get to be home alone and potter around doing my own thing after I have finished all the boring things like tidying up and cleaning!

On the menu this week we have:

Monday - Gousto meal -Thai Style Peanutty Pork Udon Noodles!
This is a new recipe to us. We love a noodle dish and the peanutty sauce sounds right up our street. It's got pork, udon noodles and a Thai-style peanut sauce which sounds like a great combo. It looks like a simple meal to make and that is just what I want for a Monday!

Tuesday - Gousto meal - BBQ Pork Belly With Apple Slaw And Chips!
We've had this one before and really enjoyed it so when I spotted it on the Gousto menu we had to have it again. There's BBQ pork belly, chips and apple slaw and it all goes together really well. This apple slaw is the best and so simple to make! It's simply chopped spring onion, grated carrot and sliced apple with mayo and white wine vinegar! I have made it lots of times, even without having the Gousto meals.

Wednesday - Gousto meal - Lamb Mince & Buttery Tatties With Minty Peas!
This is proper comfort food! It's one of those meals that I know we're going to enjoy and I think I've chosen to have it on the chilliest day of the week when it will be appreciated. There's the lamb mince with buttery mashed potatoes and minty peas, so it's simple but full of flavour. Usually I won't eat peas as a side dish but minty peas are different. I love them!

Thursday - Something out of the freezer!
I have no idea what yet but there is always plenty in there to make a meal and there are, of course random things in tubs, like Bolognese, sausage casserole or some sort of curry.

Friday - A takeaway of some sort!
Friday night is an easy night for me. I don't cook and we order takeaway. It could be pizza, Chinese or Indian food or even ordering from the fish and chip shop. We will decide on the day what we fancy.

Saturday - Pizza!
Homemade, shop bought or just frozen ones out of the freezer, I am not too sure yet.

Sunday - A help yourself evening!
I have no plans for Sunday at all. Everyone can help themselves to whatever they fancy and use up bits from the fridge, freezer and cupboards. There is always something that needs using up.

What are you eating this week?

Sunday, 4 October 2026

A photo every day for a year! 27th Sept - 3rd October Week 40 of #Project365

Happy Sunday!! I hope you've all had a lovely week and are enjoying your weekend. I am planning on having a lazy day today as I had a night out last night so I think I have earned it! I have Strictly Come Dancing to catch up on, the wrestling to watch and then I am going to watch the movie Armageddon. Over the last week, a few times when I was just about to turn the TV off, I kept seeing Armageddon being shown. I watched about 10 minutes earlier in the week and it got me in the mood to rewatch it properly!

Week 40 sounds so close to the end of the year! Eek! September flew over and I have a feeling October and November will too. We have quite a few things planned for the upcoming months which I am very excited about and then it will be Christmas, which I am feeling organised about at the moment because of buying some presents this week.

Now for a photo every day!

A moody looking sky
In a lift and cakes
Fried egg crips and Red Bull racing top
Leaves changing and flower in my garden

270/365 27th September
The sky was so moody looking on Sunday but off in the distance it was quite bright! I love taking photos of the sky and probably take too many but each time it looks so different. This one looked like we were about to get some awful weather but it never came.

271/365 28th September
We had to take the lift in Primark as the escalator was out of order. I hate lifts, every time I walk out of one I feel dizzy. I thought I would take my mind off it by snapping a quick photo!

272/365 29th September
It is a tradition that when I am watching The Great British Bake Off I have to eat cake and I got some fancy ones from M&S. I tell myself every week that I don't need to buy cake especially for it and then somehow I end up buying cake especially for it. hehehe

273/365 30th September
I was in town and saw these Fried Egg flavoured crisps in a shop. How odd! I have seen lots of flavours in my lifetime but not fried egg. I didn't buy them because I wasn't sure I was brave enough but now I've thought about them again, I am starting to regret leaving them behind! Next time I will get them and try them!

274/365 1st October
Ellie's main Christmas present arrived. A Red Bull F1 top! It cost a stupid amount of money, more than I would spend on a T-shirt for myself but Ellie is really into F1 and I can justify the price by saying it's for Christmas.

275/365 2nd October
I was at my dad's on Friday and he has the best trees for seeing the change in seasons. The leaves are starting to turn brown and it won't be long until he is spending his days raking them all up!

276/365 3rd October
I was quite surprised to see another flower in the garden. I thought we'd be getting to the point where most of the flowers had finished for the year but no! The Cornflower was definitely worth a photo!

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